the Obedient Perfectionist aka Nurse Ratched | Awareness
Nurse Ratched, also known as the Obedient Perfectionist, is a central character in Ken Kesey's novel "One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest." She is the head nurse at a mental institution and is known for her strict and authoritarian demeanor. Nurse Ratched maintains control over the patients through manipulation and intimidation, using her power to suppress their individuality and maintain order in the ward. Her actions often reflect a desire for control and dominance rather than genuine care for the well-being of the patients. Throughout the novel, Nurse Ratched's character serves as a symbol of institutional oppression and the dehumanization of individuals under her authority.
The Nurse Ratched is the perfectionist of the villains. She tolerates no mistakes and no defiance. She uses humiliation as her method of control, whether that is to shame you for your intelligence, or ability to pick up social cues or "lobotomize" you. This inner part is willing to do anything to maintain the hierarchy inherent with their role as the one in charge.
In One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, Nurse Ratched is pitted against McMurphy, a self-admitted mental patient who is looking to evade punishment. He wreaks havoc on the ward and brings the other patients back to life. Ratched was always a stickler for the rules and could not be seen to be losing control, so she lobotomized McMurphy to maintain her position.
Symptoms of this Villain:
-Enneagram 1
-Human Design: Undefined Root Center
-Humiliation Wound
-Perfectionism
-Strict adherence to rules
-Deep Fear of making mistakes
-Humiliating self in order to prevent being humiliated by others.
-Internal state: Judging self & others' ability to follow rules and social cues. Hypervigilance.
-Will often appear first as a victim who is disabled by their need to be perfect.
-Inner Magic of this Villain: Common Sense
Stages:
Stage 0: Origin Villain
Authoritarian parent/boss/teacher
A parent is concerned with kids being seen and not heard.
Experience of humiliation or being told that you were different
Experience or generational experience of loss of status, shame or immigrant status.
Stage 1: Internalization
Negation: I am bad, I am an embarrassment.
“I must adhere to the rules. If I don’t know the rules, I must create them.”
Stage 2: Diversification
Victim mentality - My perfectionism is my burden to bear.
“Everyone else must adhere to the rules.'“
I cannot show up unless I have adhered to the rules perfectly.
Stage 3: Full externalization
Adherence to order and rules is so important anyone else must suffer in order to be fair and right and maintain order.
Order and hierarchy that creates order must be maintained. This includes parent/child, boss/worker, masc/fem.
Perfect Example of Ratched’s Humiliation for Control
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Onm5gjgL97Y
This portrayal of this Ratched is a hybrid of the 1 (Nurse Ratched) and 5 (Hannibal Lecter) Villain
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DlxSG9Yyd0g
One Interpretation
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SSB_IX560S4
Other Obedient Perfectionists (Methodical Genius Villain):
Other Resources:
Lundy’s Description 2. Mr. Right
Reddit in human form. Certain and uncompromising in his opinions and beliefs. A relationship with him is more like a lecture hall than a partnership.
Any topic discussion, from his point of view, is a clash between right and wrong, good and evil, stupidity and intelligence. He and he alone understand and knows the solutions to all the issues you face, despite never experiencing them.
He might use your vulnerabilities, faults and insecurities to tear you down. Just so he can further control your life and decisions.